Dead women don't cry...
Linda:
I don't know you very well, but if you ever need to talk, please feel free to call. I get in these crying jags sometimes for no reason, too, but well, not as bad as you did, obviously. I am glad you are getting help, because antidepressants are good, but talking can help aid the work of antidepressants. And you might need to adjust your meds.
Please know I and your friends are here for you whenever you need us. Whatever set you off, you can make it right. Therapy does not make you weak ... I have been in therapy since I decided I wanted WLS. I think it makes you stronger. It has helped me so much, see so much more than I would have on my own.
I'm with you in spirit.
I don't know you very well, but if you ever need to talk, please feel free to call. I get in these crying jags sometimes for no reason, too, but well, not as bad as you did, obviously. I am glad you are getting help, because antidepressants are good, but talking can help aid the work of antidepressants. And you might need to adjust your meds.
Please know I and your friends are here for you whenever you need us. Whatever set you off, you can make it right. Therapy does not make you weak ... I have been in therapy since I decided I wanted WLS. I think it makes you stronger. It has helped me so much, see so much more than I would have on my own.
I'm with you in spirit.
May you find Peace in your life, I know it is sad when we argue with our children, but too shall pass,
I am over 60 my daughter is 32. She lives her life is a single mom of a ten year old, does a good job, yet weeks before Christmas I was not happy with a amn friend she had in her life, and told her so.
She was so mad at me because I did not give her credit for knowing he was a negative person in her life. Anyway long story short.....I know it was my fault, I should have let it go, and she would have made a good decision on her own.
I was so sad and unhappy it tore me up and emptied me out.
No we are good again, I have learned to maybe leave some things alone.
I hope you will find happiness again, and not let this go too long.
If you made it through all you have been through...you must be one strong lady! Even if you don't feel strong now, or are wanting to give up the good fight, try , Try real to make the changes you need to to become the woman I know you are. Be kind to yourself, love yourself, we love you. Lola
I am over 60 my daughter is 32. She lives her life is a single mom of a ten year old, does a good job, yet weeks before Christmas I was not happy with a amn friend she had in her life, and told her so.
She was so mad at me because I did not give her credit for knowing he was a negative person in her life. Anyway long story short.....I know it was my fault, I should have let it go, and she would have made a good decision on her own.
I was so sad and unhappy it tore me up and emptied me out.
No we are good again, I have learned to maybe leave some things alone.
I hope you will find happiness again, and not let this go too long.
If you made it through all you have been through...you must be one strong lady! Even if you don't feel strong now, or are wanting to give up the good fight, try , Try real to make the changes you need to to become the woman I know you are. Be kind to yourself, love yourself, we love you. Lola
mimiof6
on 1/18/09 7:37 am
on 1/18/09 7:37 am
Dear Linda,
You are the heart of this forum and we all love and care VERY much for you. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Take care of yourself FIRST! It took me many years to learn this. God Bless You as you take on another layer of growth, which this will eventually be, I assure you. Ain't life a strange adventure?
You are the heart of this forum and we all love and care VERY much for you. My prayers and thoughts are with you. Take care of yourself FIRST! It took me many years to learn this. God Bless You as you take on another layer of growth, which this will eventually be, I assure you. Ain't life a strange adventure?
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Linda....my heart is just breaking for you!! I wish I could wrap you in my arms and make everything all better. But...you know as well as I that you are the only one that can do that.
I wish you all the best with your therapy. I would be a lost soul without my therapist. He keeps me heading in the right direction whether I want to or not.
I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
You are a very special and dear friend. I value your friendship very much!
You are greatly missed!!!
Much love and many gentle hugs....Boo...to you!!
I wish you all the best with your therapy. I would be a lost soul without my therapist. He keeps me heading in the right direction whether I want to or not.
I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
You are a very special and dear friend. I value your friendship very much!
You are greatly missed!!!
Much love and many gentle hugs....Boo...to you!!
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